How a gay couple can handle living with an Eastern European family?

let it motivate you, fuel you. let it make you work harder to gain the finances you need to move out faster. think of how good it will feel when you can finally be intimate together. and why do you care about what the family thinks? you live there, but that doesn't make them god. they won't let you sleep in the same bed? bypass their wills. sleep together on the floor or on the couch. if you both happen to be there, what are they going to do? and still be intimate. so what if they don't want you to be affectionate? what are they going to do? kick you out? not if they want to keep your man happy. use harsh language? so what. remember it's a bad situation for both of you, it's a war of attrition, you versus them. the last one to crack wins. good luck!