Ramadan...dilemma, can someone help please.?

I agree with the 1st answer. Also remember, there are many many many males in the world lol. There not as bad as a lot of people say, and either way you're going to have to deal with them eventually at some point. You might feel uncomfortable now, but i think it is a VERRRRRRRY minor compromise to make to go there. Do what is best for you. and remember 50% of the world is made up of males. You don't need to be afraid of them, they're human just like you!